Monday, December 29, 2008
Unlikely, Indeed!
Christmas Eve has always been a special night. New outfits, carols by candlelight, anticipation for the morn. This year, however, challenged our ability to revel in all the joys Christmas brings. Papa wasn't home.
Christmas Eve came, and we all hustled and bustled amidst concern for Dad. Our church service was at 4pm, and it was going to take a Christmas Miracle to get the Barclay5 there in time. David and I toyed with the idea of not going at all. But he suggested we get ready and surprise Papa, bringing Christmas Eve Service to him, bedside at the hospital.
With renewed excitement, everyone cooperated, dressed and loaded into the car. We discussed our plan: the kids would go in the room first, we'd sing several Christmas carols and hymns (I have a book, thankfully), read the account from Luke, and close with Silent Night.
In my minds eye I knew my Dad would be thrilled. But I never anticipated the beauty that would transform a stark-white, lonely room into a Cathedral of sweet praise. We sang with such joy, my dad wept like I have never seen before. It was joy, and gratitude, and humbleness, and a holy peace all mixed together and flowing without restraint. What a gift for us all. Christmas came in an unlikely place.
We gathered ourselves, wiped tears, hugged, kissed and went on our merry way to dinner awaiting at Mimi's. I was quite shocked to realize as we opened the non-sound-proof door that an audience had gathered - Christmas had come for them, too, through unlikely (and somewhat out-of-tune) voices.
But isn't that just how Christmas is. Christ, God's son, came to us in human form in the most unlikely of places - a lowly manger. Christmas came, and still comes, no matter where we find ourselves. Sometimes, we just have to look!
Papa came home this evening! Our post-Christmas gift - and my number 152.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
I'll Have a Blue Christmas..
Mimi insists that the show must go on. So, to that end, we will all have dinner Christmas Eve and take turns visiting our guy.
My dad is such a sport. On the phone with my mom, asking how daddy is doing, his response, "I feel good!"
Just love him so!
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Reasons to Smile...
Maeve and Myles had a Snow Day, reason enough. We live real close to my in-laws so Maeve was able to do some baking with her Grandma. What precious memories these will be for my girl.
Recently, Maeve saw The Nutcracker Ballet starring my niece, Morgan. Well it has been none-stop-nutcracker-love ever since. Eamon is the honorary audience for all show times.
Friday, December 19, 2008
Click!
Getting ready...
Checking out the new view.
That's our boy!
Yeah, we are all so proud!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
This Day Last Year...
There are only two ways to live your life.
David had a vision of Eamon standing by Christmas. Even I raised an eyebrow at the reality of such a position in the immediate future.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
One Size Does Not Fit All
Last week, I had a surprise visit from a friend I haven't seen in apparently 3 years. She wanted to know all about Eamon, an abridged report of all we have experienced in the Prince's 22+ months. The sprint down memory lane forced me to retell the story and be reminded, again, that clearly God knows that one-size is not the right fit. His grace, which incidentally is the theme of our Eamon adventure, is customized. Perfectly molded for each circumstance and new each day. It never loses staying power. It is completely divine. A miracle.
So many are hurting. Cancer looms, death knocks, sickness robs, betrayal stings, finances scare. Sincere pray waiting to be answered. And yet, it is. Grace. Allowing human hearts to rise above what would otherwise destroy. Hearts able to be at peace and experience joy in its simplest, most profound form. That is Grace. Strength that defies - Grace. Vision that can see "plan B" might just be the real plan. Being in the eye of the storm - Grace.
So when asked, "How do you do it - be Eamon's mom?" The answer is I don't, it is all Grace. I couldn't read an other's script. This grace is customized for my "broken road".
Customized-Grace, my number 149!
Monday, December 8, 2008
Glimpses...
Eamon's shirt, I Believe, true in so many ways.
We believe in the sweet wonder of Christmas.
We believe that Eamon is our gift in any season.
We believe that God has a plan for the prince.
We believe in the power of prayer.
We believe Eamon will continue to strengthen.
We believe that God is good, regardless.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Endless Thanks
Throughout my days I encounter many moments where God seems to give me a "wink" but I am not always quick to jot it down, or type as the case may be. Inevitably, I forget those specific "winks". And so the Gift List, intentionally looking for and documenting reasons for my joy.
If I was able to attend such a service dedicated to praise this is what I would have to offer:
133. Impromptu lunch with my friend and our children. Our shared history makes conversation possible above the chaos that naturally ensues when little ones and alarming child are involved.
134. Missing my family -odd intro to this gift, but Mimi and Papa are out of town for the holiday. So even though I might still have been with David's family - something just doesn't feel right. It's good to miss people sometimes because it reminds you of the blessing of closely located family. I don't want to take that luxury for granted.
135. Thanksgiving Chapel Service at M&M's school this morning. Children singing praises, reading God's word, and leading those attending by example set the tone for this holiday season.
136. The Thanksgiving Prayer Walk that followed chapel. It was a small gathering of parents that walked from the flagpole to 7 identified locations around the school building praying for our children and their teachers. It was such a sacred assembly because God clearly is found when two or more gather in His name.
137. My little ones excitedly preparing for a reader's theater presentation they will spring on the family at our celebration tomorrow. Complete with pilgrim hats and props.
138. Eamon's contagious smile, warming my heart with each breathy laugh.
139. A new seat for the prince, albeit a loaner, allowing him to join us at the Thanksgiving table. Sitting up, soaking in all the sights and smells. Laughing, I'm sure, all the while.
140. Days off to decorate, a tradition for the Barclay 5 to deck the halls the day after we feast. And, a little extra exercise to assuage our guilt.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Building Cathedrals
My ongoing gift list needs to include the many women who have shaped me, who have built when they thought no one was looking, and who continue to encourage me through my days. Number 131, my mom, thank you for pouring your life out - I hope to be a Cathedral worthy of your sacrifice.
And to all the other women (number 132), who set out to live selflessly, you point me to a better walk. My baby cathedrals are affected by your influence. So "with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees," I offer my gratitude.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Do Not Exasperate Your Children...
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Our 7 Wonders of the World!
M&M don't quite understand the "free" part. Maeve, the only other card holder in our traveling band, tells me "Don't worry Mom, I've got it this time."
Their feverish excitement reminds me of a friend I used to teach with. Bashi is an avid reader, with a vocabulary that includes words like.......well, they are so impressive I can't remember the one I was going to reference. Anyway, Bashi was mugged several years back. While giving report to the police, she was gripped with absolute terror. Bashi realized her library card was included in the lost items. She had images of the assailant racing to her library, checking out all the new releases and DVDs with no plan to return them in a timely fashion, and ultimately sticking Bashi with untold overdue fees. Clearly, Bashi wins for greatest respect for "the card" and overall devotion to the Library, but Maeve and Myles are in close second.
The countdown has begun for Myles. At age 5, he too will be eligible for a library card. And then, Maeve will not have to always throw hers down for payment.
Monday, November 17, 2008
These Boots Were Made For Walking
The Prince, in all his glory, watching Elmo - why is it every child loves that furry friend.
Monday, November 10, 2008
How Great is Our God
Monday, November 3, 2008
Get Out the Vote, Barclay Style
This certainly set a tone for M&Ms tolerance factor for the other side.
With all the tension the race for the White House has created, I thought a bit of levity was needed. The following story is true, but names have been changed to protect the innocent.
Maeve was busy hanging her coat at school when her friend, we'll just call her Jane, came along. Maeve enthusiastically asked who she (Jane) was voting for. Without hesitation, the unsuspecting girl answered "Barack Obama!". Aghast, Maeve responded with "W-h-a-t, don't you know he lies!" Poor, frightened Jane answered, "I didn't know." Maeve was still reeling when she later relayed the event to me. Horrified that her friend would vote for "Barack-O".
The girls have since settled on agreeing to disagree, and will continue on peacefully their friendship.
I am glad to see such enthusiasm for civics.
So tomorrow, Maeve and Myles will accompany us to the polls and cast "their" vote. No secret who Maeve is voting for! Go McCain/Palin!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Trick or Treat
The end of a hayride with prince #1, Eamon stayed home because it was cold and windy.
Our little "veggie" pirate. Ah Hoy There!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
The Latest Fashion!
Mystic or Bust
After a nice dinner, we ducked in for an early night. The kids loved staying in our first class accommodations - HoJo, Mystic style!
Then a bright start for the seaport. Beautiful views of the Mystic River were the backdrop of our day. Eamon strolled peacefully enjoying the scenery.